Lukas has had two overnight stays at his vet in the last two weeks while enemas were given and medication changes were made. He has also had a bit of trouble walking and the radiologist could not determine whether there was a soft tissue injury or a spinal issue that could not be seen on x-ray. He is walking better with rest and time and a daily steroid medication and seems happy to follow me around our abode. He is also taking a second blood pressure med and something to help his motility so that the enemas may be reduced or unneeded. As the result of these measures, his affect and mood are much improved and he has enjoyed keeping me company with no further "pee drama," as one of you put it.
Over the last days the vet and I have discussed his end of life and she is of the opinion that while the tide is slowly turning for this boy, as long as he is comfortable and happy, and we can do what is reasonable to keep him so, it is also reasonable to see how well and for how long he responds to our efforts. He was happy and receptive to attention at the cat hospital and has been that way since returning to me. He can navigate our home with no difficulty now as well.
As for me, the end of the week finds me tired but relieved and as long as I can keep up with his six to eight meds, feedings and fluid appointments. things stay on an even keel. I am fully aware that I am providing palliative care at this point.
I will do some cooking for the week and a bit of tidying. Early to bed has become my newest habit and I'm enjoying some books as well as binge watching ten seasons of Father Brown.
My thanks to those who wrote privately or left supportive comments here. While I may be here infrequently, I do appreciate hearing from readers.
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Thanks so much for the update. I've been wondering if Lukas-care has been occupying your time and energy. You're so skilled with him, and realistic about how he's doing.
Remember to take care of E, too. Caregivers get into giving mode and you need some care, too. Has your friend delivered flowers lately? I hope things like that are happening for you.
Thank you for this post. I have been worrying about both of you.
I have several of the Father Brown books - and reread them at intervals. Look after you, while you are looking after Lukas please.
I'm happy to hear that he's doing well. You take such good care of him. And I'm sure he does the same with you. Wishing you both a really good week ahead.
It's not easy getting being sick forr anyone- not the one who is ill or the caretaker.. I'm glad Lukas is resting easier and you are able to get to bed early to get your rest too. My thoughts are with you,
An intense time for you both, E. I do hope you are taking care of you too, and I believe you are. Binging on shows I find a great relief if I am anxious about something.
Lukas is in your excellent compassion and care and I know you are cherishing these days with him. He chose you well.
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Thank you for the update. I have been concerned. I understand palliative care. When they are still enjoying their life it doesn't seem necessary to do anything, as long as they can be cared for. Which Lukas is. Take care, e.
The vet's words are reasonable and realistic. For the time being Lucas responds well to care, and you've still got days to cherish with him. All the Best to you and Lucas!
I'm sorry to read Lucas is sick. Glad he's doing better though and my heart goes out to you both. BIG HUGGGGGGGS.
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