Monday, July 30, 2012

Yes, I'm Still Here...

Greetings From A Lapsed Blogger,

I hope all of you are well and I appreciate the comments left here. In the last five weeks, there have been no more tropical storms and we've returned to our normal pattern of afternoon rains. With August nearly upon us, the rains should abate which will make the heat completely unbearable. For someone like me, who grew up very near the equator, the Florida heat should be a piece of cake but the older I become, the less tolerance I have for humidity. Unlike the beaches in California, which provide welcoming breezes, beaches here  offer a stifling reminder of why humans have adapted to air conditioning.

Aside from the weather, I have been able to catch up with friends, check that all of the felines in the house are happy and that their health issues are appropriately managed, take in a few films, pare down a couple of bills and look at several flats, all of which need more renovation than my budget will allow. Many are bank-owned and the asking prices are inflated. I am left wondering if the bankers live in such a rarefied world that they actually believe people will come, cash in hand, to pay more than a property is worth. The housing market here should be a buyer's paradise. However, I have seen the prices rise for single-family homes while flats like mine continue to decline in value. Add to that real estate professionals who now tell potential buyers that few mortgages are available for condominiums as cash is preferred.  I also wonder who has between forty and seventy thousand dollars sitting around for the taking in the present economy. The only thing I can conclude is that perhaps with the Republican National Convention here later in August, some wealthy folk desiring rental property may fall upon mold-ridden, outdated or filthy flats, transforming them into gems that command higher rents. This isn't likely with the glut in the rental market here, from what I can see. I am not seeking to be a landlord, but to live in whatever I purchase.

Unlike other prospective buyers, I require doorways wide enough for my twenty-six and one half-inch chair and a kitchen large enough to allow me to open the refrigerator while I am sitting in my chair. The narrow doors and L-shaped kitchens of the seventies and eighties just won't do. A contractor friend, who is also a licensed code inspector and realtor tells me I would be better off remodeling my present abode than starting over in another. He may be right, but I would like a bit more space, and to
live in a place that does not require me, because of the ignorance of its board, to consult an attorney regarding my right to accommodation and problems with curb cuts that are not compliant with current codes. Various contractors who have visited my home have noted that the outside curb cuts are ridiculous and ill-placed. They are also not easy to use. Additionally, where I and the resident pets are to stay while any renovation is undertaken, inside or out, is another matter entirely.

My upstairs neighbour, whom I've written about in a previous post, is to be evicted and has been served. Until this process is completed, however, I live with my doors locked and blinds drawn, avoiding going out when she is on the stairs or outside anywhere here. My flat has become prison-like and that more than anything else is contributing to my desire to leave. In truth, in this country, the mentally ill are allowed to live freely unless they commit crimes, a situation I find frustrating when my neighbour is so obviously in need of supervision since she self-medicates and causes problems for others.

No brilliant holiday plans are in the offing this year, though I did organise a party of twelve or so for my upcoming birthday. I hope we all enjoy our time together. I am grateful to have friends who enjoy spending time with me as well as each other and despite life's trials, it is a blessing to have another year to look forward to. I will try to write more consistently and answer comments or questions. Be well.

Until Next Time...










9 comments:

Steve Reed said...

It seems like it would be so much easier for the condo board to install better curb cuts than try to fight with you. How much can a curb cut cost, for Pete's sake?

There's certainly nothing wrong with looking around at other real estate. But you might also have some difficulty selling your place, given the sinkhole issues. In the long run you might be better off staying put. I'm not sure. A Realtor could tell you more.

It's terrible that mentally ill people are basically left to fend for themselves these days. Thank you, Ronald Reagan! The proliferation of guns certainly contributes to our violent society, but so does the lack of available care and housing for those with serious mental illness.

Brian Miller said...

ugh on the home becoming prison like...i hope the eviction does not take long...and wish you the best in finding the place that is just right for you....and working in the field i do, i understand your frustrations...

the fly in the web said...

I know you will feel better about everything once your dreadful neighbour goes....to start terrorising others, no doubt as there seems to be no provision if care for people in her situation.
The borthday plans will help to break your sense of isolation too.

The property situation puzzles me...all we hear is how cheap property is in Florida, but I suppose the banks have them on their books at hyperflated prices and selling them off at real values will put them in trouble.

Best wishes for finding a solution.

e said...

More than they are willing to pay. They had a contractor who rents here doing work for 10 dollars an hour during his off hours. He purchased the materials and was then told not to do the work. No explanation was ever given and no-one from the board here ever had the decency to discuss the situation with me. As for realtors, they like commissions and these sell as cheap rental properties.

e said...

There is none unless her family has her committed, and they give her wide berth as she has no doubt worn them down. Cheap is a word the banks don't like...they and the realtors prefer bidding wars...

On These Spindrift Pages - A journal of nature, thought, and the reflective life. said...

My dear e, My heart lifts up when I saw this post. Just want to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Finding a house is definitely one of the most stressful things in life but it can also be rewarding at the end. There is light at the end of the tunnel. I hope you will keep your chin up and I'm relieved to hear that you have the support from your close friends. You are not alone in this. I often think about you and I shall now pray for you and send you a thousand angels to your way. With best wishes, ASDx

e said...

Thank you for your encouragement, ASD. I hope you are right. It is always a pleasure to hear from you.

Jenny Woolf said...

You are having to deal with a great deal of stress and it's been going on for a long time. I am sure your neighbour has contributed in great measure to this. I hope she finds other things to think about soon and leaves you alone. I agree that many people with mental illness need full time care - both for themselves and for others. I can hardly imagine anything worse than one's mind being all wrong, but forcing sufferers to live in the community when they really cannot manage is unfair on them AND on their neighbours, making the community bear a cost which is nothing to do with them. I suppose that not having adequate treatment saves taxes for those who don't need the help.

e said...

I take my hat off to you Brian. Your work is important and unfortunately often undervalued. Thanks for 3the kind wishes.